The Believer Whom Jesus Loves

John 13:23

It is Valentine’s Day; a day when lovers share little sentiments of their affection with one another, often with cards, candy, flowers, stuffed animals or jewelry. The purpose is no doubt to generate money for these various products within our economy, but for those participating, it is all about sharing the love with someone special.

It is truly joyful to boast of your love for someone. You can shower them with praise and affection, and that showing of love brings warmth to your heart. That is a sampling of what it feels like to pour the love of Christ into someone’s life. As wonderful as that is, many believers go every day without experiencing that wonderful feeling.

The reason that many believers rarely, if ever, share the love of Christ with anyone is not because they don’t think that the Lord loves people, or because they are being rebellious against the Great Commission, but rather is because they have little knowledge of how loved that they are. The knowledge of how much God loves you will give you the power to share love with other people.

The apostle John writes of “the disciple whom Jesus loved”, and then never names himself in this gospel. This disciple whom Jesus loved is identified as the author of the book (John 21:24), so we know that John is referring to himself. Jesus certainly doesn’t love John more than He loves any of the other disciples, but it is John who recognizes the love of Jesus for him. This knowledge finds John leaning on Jesus’ bosom at the Last Supper, resting close to the heart of the Savior. Those who know how loved that they are do not run off looking for opportunity to sin, but rather they rest close to the heartbeat of the one who loves them so much.

John refers to himself in this manner a number of times in this book. The other usages show us John in various situations, always learning something new, as those who know that they are loved are always growing in the knowledge of our Lord and Savior.

On this day set aside by the world as a day of love, let’s think not only of our love for our spouse or our boyfriend or girlfriend, and not only of our love for the Lord, but let’s think of His love for us. The Apostle of Love would write in his first epistle, “Herein is love, not that we loved God, but that He loved us, and sent His Son to be the propitiation for our sins” (1 John 4:10). John is telling us that true love is not how much we love the Lord, but rather how much the Lord loves us. We cannot even know how to love Him without this knowledge, for “We love Him, because He first loved us” (1 John 4:19).

Perhaps no poet or writer has ever captured the perfect love of God in any of their work, but one songwriter came very close. The Sunday school tune, “Jesus Loves Me” has been sang by children the world over and there may be no truer theology regarding the love of Christ for us all. Maybe every Christian should sing its lines from time to time, and rest in His matchless love:

Jesus loves me this I know,
For the Bible tells me so,
Little ones to Him belong,
They are blessed for He is strong.
Yes Jesus loves me, yes Jesus loves me, yes Jesus loves me,
The Bible tells me so

(If you enjoyed this devotion, and would like more information on this topic, contact the ministry and request Pastor Paul’s sermon titled, “The Love Secret of the Apostle John” on CD. It is our gift to you!)

The Disciple Whom Jesus Loved

John 13:23

My key text records the phrase, “One of His disciples, whom Jesus loved”. This is one of five instances in the book of John in which we hear of this “disciple whom Jesus loved”, and we find him only in this book. Consequently, the name of the apostle John never appears in this book, while we learn in the final chapter that the author is “the disciple whom Jesus loved”. This lets us know that John wrote the book and that he is that disciple whom Jesus loved.

It is interesting that Matthew, Mark and Luke just refer to John by his name, but John refers to himself with this title. Is this cocky on John’s part? Is it foolish? What are we to think of someone who refers to themselves in their own writings as “the disciple whom Jesus loved”? Did Jesus love John more than the other disciples? If so, does He love me more than you or vice versa?

The answer is that Jesus loves all of us the same, for “There is no respect of persons with God” (Romans 2:11). The difference for John was that he practiced a working knowledge of the Savior’s love for him. Rather than spend his time boasting of his love for Jesus; or working to love Jesus more, he learned to rest in Jesus’ love for him. Great things would occur in the life of John because of the knowledge that he was deeply loved. Let’s look at a few of the moments in which John calls himself, “the disciple whom Jesus loved”:

1. John 13:23 – Peter asks “one of His disciples, whom Jesus loved” which disciple would betray Jesus. The text just told us that John was lying against Jesus’ bosom, so why does Peter ask John to ask Jesus, when Peter is nearly as close to Jesus as John? The only conclusion can be that Peter (who boasted of his love for Jesus rather than Jesus’ love for him) felt too distant from the Master for such an intimate question. Practice resting near Jesus’ heart of love for you and people will turn to you for answers, perceiving that you are close to Him.

2. John 19:26 – Standing at the cross next to the mother of Jesus is the one “whom He loved”. There are no other disciples waiting there, only the one who has an awareness of just how loved that he is. Equipped with this love, he is able to stand firm at the crucifixion while all of the others flee. He is also given the intimate task of watching over Mary, the mother of Jesus. A working knowledge that you are loved leads you to the ministry of the Lord.

3. John 21:20 – One of the final moments in the earthly ministry of Christ revolves around a revelation concerning the “disciple whom Jesus loved”. Peter asks what that disciple will do to which Jesus responds, “If I will that he tarry till I come, what is that to thee? Follow thou me” (John 21:22). This led to a rumor that John would not taste death, but would be alive when Jesus returned. This rumor was no doubt fueled by the fact that John lived to be over 100 years old and died of natural causes; long after the other disciples had met their martyrdom. The knowledge that he was beloved brought a revelation of long life to this special disciple. If it was good for him, why not for us?

When John wrote his little epistles (1, 2, 3 John), he filled them with the knowledge of God’s love for the believer. He has been rightfully called the Apostle of Love, for no other disciple seemed to grasp God’s love for mankind quite like the Apostle John. May each of us learn to see ourselves as the Christian whom Jesus loves; resting close to His heart; prepared to be used for ministry; and receiving fresh revelation of how to love life and see good days. You are more than just loved, you are beloved!

The Believer Whom Jesus Loves

John 13:23

It is Valentine’s Day; a day when lovers share little sentiments of their affection with one another, often with cards, candy, flowers, stuffed animals or jewelry. The purpose is no doubt to generate money for these various products within our economy, but for those participating, it is all about sharing the love with someone special.

It is truly joyful to boast of your love for someone. You can shower them with praise and affection, and that showing of love brings warmth to your heart. That is a sampling of what it feels like to pour the love of Christ into someone’s life. As wonderful as that is, many believers go every day without experiencing that wonderful feeling.

The reason that many believers rarely, if ever, share the love of Christ with anyone is not because they don’t think that the Lord loves people, or because they are being rebellious against the Great Commission, but rather is because they have little knowledge of how loved that they are. The knowledge of how much God loves you will give you the power to share love with other people.

The apostle John writes of “the disciple whom Jesus loved”, and then never names himself in this gospel. This disciple whom Jesus loved is identified as the author of the book (John 21:24), so we know that John is referring to himself. Jesus certainly doesn’t love John more than He loves any of the other disciples, but it is John who recognizes the love of Jesus for him. This knowledge finds John leaning on Jesus’ bosom at the Last Supper, resting close to the heart of the Savior. Those who know how loved that they are do not run off looking for opportunity to sin, but rather they rest close to the heartbeat of the one who loves them so much.

John refers to himself in this manner a number of times in this book. The other usages show us John in various situations, always learning something new, as those who know that they are loved are always growing in the knowledge of our Lord and Savior.

On this day set aside by the world as a day of love, let’s think not only of our love for our spouse or our boyfriend or girlfriend, and not only of our love for the Lord, but let’s think of His love for us. The Apostle of Love would write in his first epistle, “Herein is love, not that we loved God, but that He loved us, and sent His Son to be the propitiation for our sins” (1 John 4:10). John is telling us that true love is not how much we love the Lord, but rather how much the Lord loves us. We cannot even know how to love Him without this knowledge, for “We love Him, because He first loved us” (1 John 4:19).

Perhaps no poet or writer has ever captured the perfect love of God in any of their work, but one songwriter came very close. The Sunday school tune, “Jesus Loves Me” has been sang by children the world over and there may be no truer theology regarding the love of Christ for us all. Maybe every Christian should sing its lines from time to time, and rest in His matchless love:

Jesus loves me this I know,
For the Bible tells me so,
Little ones to Him belong,
They are blessed for He is strong.
Yes Jesus loves me, yes Jesus loves me, yes Jesus loves me,
The Bible tells me so

(If you enjoyed this devotion, and would like more information on this topic, contact the ministry and request Pastor Paul’s sermon titled, “The Love Secret of the Apostle John” on CD. It is our gift to you!)

The Disciple Whom Jesus Loved

John 13:23

My key text records the phrase, “One of His disciples, whom Jesus loved”. This is one of five instances in the book of John in which we hear of this “disciple whom Jesus loved”, and we find him only in this book. Consequently, the name of the apostle John never appears in this book, while we learn in the final chapter that the author is “the disciple whom Jesus loved”. This lets us know that John wrote the book and that he is that disciple whom Jesus loved.

It is interesting that Matthew, Mark and Luke just refer to John by his name, but John refers to himself with this title. Is this cocky on John’s part? Is it foolish? What are we to think of someone who refers to themselves in their own writings as “the disciple whom Jesus loved”? Did Jesus love John more than the other disciples? If so, does He love me more than you or vice versa?

The answer is that Jesus loves all of us the same, for “There is no respect of persons with God” (Romans 2:11). The difference for John was that he practiced a working knowledge of the Savior’s love for him. Rather than spend his time boasting of his love for Jesus; or working to love Jesus more, he learned to rest in Jesus’ love for him. Great things would occur in the life of John because of the knowledge that he was deeply loved. Let’s look at a few of the moments in which John calls himself, “the disciple whom Jesus loved”:

1. John 13:23 – Peter asks “one of His disciples, whom Jesus loved” which disciple would betray Jesus. The text just told us that John was lying against Jesus’ bosom, so why does Peter ask John to ask Jesus, when Peter is nearly as close to Jesus as John? The only conclusion can be that Peter (who boasted of his love for Jesus rather than Jesus’ love for him) felt too distant from the Master for such an intimate question. Practice resting near Jesus’ heart of love for you and people will turn to you for answers, perceiving that you are close to Him.

2. John 19:26 – Standing at the cross next to the mother of Jesus is the one “whom He loved”. There are no other disciples waiting there, only the one who has an awareness of just how loved that he is. Equipped with this love, he is able to stand firm at the crucifixion while all of the others flee. He is also given the intimate task of watching over Mary, the mother of Jesus. A working knowledge that you are loved leads you to the ministry of the Lord.

3. John 21:20 – One of the final moments in the earthly ministry of Christ revolves around a revelation concerning the “disciple whom Jesus loved”. Peter asks what that disciple will do to which Jesus responds, “If I will that he tarry till I come, what is that to thee? Follow thou me” (John 21:22). This led to a rumor that John would not taste death, but would be alive when Jesus returned. This rumor was no doubt fueled by the fact that John lived to be over 100 years old and died of natural causes; long after the other disciples had met their martyrdom. The knowledge that he was beloved brought a revelation of long life to this special disciple. If it was good for him, why not for us?

When John wrote his little epistles (1, 2, 3 John), he filled them with the knowledge of God’s love for the believer. He has been rightfully called the Apostle of Love, for no other disciple seemed to grasp God’s love for mankind quite like the Apostle John. May each of us learn to see ourselves as the Christian whom Jesus loves; resting close to His heart; prepared to be used for ministry; and receiving fresh revelation of how to love life and see good days. You are more than just loved, you are beloved!

For God So Loved

John 3:16, 17, 36

What a great phrase, “For God so loved the world”! There is a world of power and love that is hanging on that little word, “so”. He “so” loved us that He killed His own Son Jesus so that He would not have to kill all of us. He “so” loved us while we were living in sin and rejecting Him that He showed that love off on a hill called Calvary. That “so” love is why we are here.

I personally consider this statement to be one of the most important one regarding the grace of God, because it shows us how much that God loves each and every person. There is no love like sacrificial love that denies its own to save another. While a segment of the church clamors to put the Ten Commandments on the walls of our schools and courthouses, where is the focus group wanting to display John 3:16? The luster has been removed from scriptures regarding God’s powerful love for humanity, but we should polish them, and bring it back!

The 17th verse tells what makes verse 16 so great, “For God sent not his Son into the world to condemn the world; but that the world through him might be saved”. The reason that Jesus came was not to condemn the world, for they were condemned already. They could be no guiltier than they already were, and the knowledge of that guilt was not helping them to change in the least. Instead, Christ came to provide a way of escape from the guilt and condemnation. Through His payment at the cross, man would be reunited with God, having no wall of separation between them, if He merely accepts Christ by faith.

As we live for the Lord it is easy to forget just how loved that we are. Sometimes we may think that His love for us is tied to our performance for Him. If we do good, perhaps He loves us more, but if we do bad then His love wanes a bit. Because God “so loved the world”, He gave His Son to save us not only from our sins, but also from our performance. If Christianity were all about performance, then Christ’s death on the cross was a waste of time. Judaism was already about performance before Christ came and died, but His death was the culmination of His perfect performance. Because He performed perfectly, you and I partake in His perfection.

John writes, “He that believeth on the Son hath everlasting life: and he that believeth not the Son shall not see life; but the wrath of God abideth on him” (John 3:36). Our performance has nothing to do with receiving the life that lasts forever. Our faith in Jesus Christ is the sole requirement, while the lack thereof will place us underneath the wrath of God. Since God’s wrath was poured out on Jesus at the cross, there should be none left for us. Stay in Jesus by faith and you are free from any judgment.

To comprehend how great God’s “so” love is for us, we should consider the magnitude of His giving His only Son. There is no one on the planet that I would sacrifice my son for, so I cannot fathom this type of love, yet God did it so that I could go free. Receive a revelation of His “so” love for you today and watch as the chains of condemnation fall from your heart and mind.